How can a psychotherapist help coparents build trust during divorce?
Interview with Kerry Bailey Psychotherapist from Sydney Hypno and Cheryl Duffy Divorce Coach, Mediator & Parenting Coordinator from The...
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Cheryl Duffy
Feb 23 min read
You ruined my life!
Separation is one of the most traumatic events in your life, particularly so for those who’s partner have decided to call it quits. You...
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Cheryl Duffy
Jan 314 min read
Who is liable for my ex racking up bills after separation?
A lot of people think that your asset & liability values are taken from the date of separation. Â This is incorrect, they are taken as...
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Cheryl Duffy
Jan 241 min read
Family law changes from May 2024
Factsheet for parents and parties of the Family Law Changes from May 2024 Family law is changing. These changes may affect you if you...
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Cheryl Duffy
Jan 214 min read
My ex isn’t entitled to anything!
As a mediator, I have heard clients with the misperception that since they were the sole financial provider that their ex isn’t entitled...
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Cheryl Duffy
Jan 73 min read
Setting a boundary without even telling them you are!
People often think setting a boundary is telling someone to stop doing something and expecting them to comply. This just creates conflict...
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Cheryl Duffy
Jan 14 min read
Should you BIFF your coparent?
Communicating with your coparent can be very frustrating and stressful as we struggle to remove the emotional hurt and pain of the...
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Cheryl Duffy
Dec 26, 20233 min read
Is your coparenting conflict filled with assumptions about intentions versus impact?
You may be unaware of your coparent's intention but aware of the impact it has on you. Conversely, your coparent is aware of their own...
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Cheryl Duffy
Dec 16, 20234 min read
Your ex brings their partner to handover, but you are accused of causing conflict!
Separation can have a rocky start as emotions are high and the hurt cuts deep. Trying to get through each day when your mind may be...
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Cheryl Duffy
Dec 1, 20233 min read
Investment property gotcha in financial settlement
Financial settlement can be stressful as you collate all your assets, liabilities, super, financial contributions, non-financial...
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Cheryl Duffy
Nov 26, 20233 min read
Is your coparenting conflict causing loyalty anxiety for your child?
Children often struggle with their parents’ separation as they feel they are made to choose between each parent in varying situations....
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Cheryl Duffy
Nov 23, 20234 min read
Is my ex trying to make me contravene our orders?
There can be situations where you may feel your coparent is making it difficult for you to adhere to your consent/parenting orders. Your...
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Cheryl Duffy
Nov 18, 20234 min read
Create calm not chaos for your children
Children are often affected by the chaos, uncertainty and insecurity that family separation brings. They can be witnessing parents...
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Cheryl Duffy
Nov 6, 20233 min read
Child focused separation vs separation focused childhood
As parents, it is our responsibility to ensure our children’s needs are the highest priority to help them transition and adjust to the...
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Cheryl Duffy
Nov 5, 20233 min read
Is it a safety issue or a different parenting style?
Separated parents often raise concerns regarding the children spending time with the other parent, but some of the concerns raised are...
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Cheryl Duffy
Oct 30, 20233 min read
How do I tell my kids I want to reduce time on the weekends with them?
Initially at the onset of separation you may have agreed to have the kids on the weekend whilst the coparent has the kids during the...
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Cheryl Duffy
Oct 29, 20233 min read
Why doesn't my ex just move on like I have and accept my new partner?
Separation is a difficult time for the family but can be more contentious when one coparent starts a new relationship. You may feel that...
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Cheryl Duffy
Oct 24, 20233 min read
Losing Nemo - A Father’s Grief
For those parents who have not seen their children for a long time, this is for you. The heartache is unimaginable for those of us who...
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Cheryl Duffy
Sep 28, 20231 min read
Tread carefully walking alongside the tiger!
Are you walking on eggshells anticipating the next attack? Every time you try to communicate about shared parenting or property it just...
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Cheryl Duffy
Sep 25, 20233 min read
Is your property mediation stuck on an impasse?
Mediation empowers both parties to agree on the net asset pool, consider financial and non-financial contributions, future needs and...
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